This one?
https://www.akaipro.com/akai-fire
https://blog.segger.com/decoding-the-akai-fire-part-2/ says FL colors the buttons using sysex.
Resolume won't do that, but as Akai hasn't published the usual programmer's guide for the controller, it's hard to say if it would react on midi note velocities to light up the buttons.
Maybe Akai support can help you there.
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