I have been trying to setup Resolume 4 and Ableton Live 9 on the same PC. I know it's not ideal, but it's all I have for now. Nothing worked properly until I saw the Max for Live stuff you guys posted on your blog.
It works great when you're connecting 2 computers on a cable or even on the same PC provided you are connected to a LAN. But I can't prepare or test stuff at home because I only have one computer and no internet. I signed up here to ask for a solution, but I ended up finding one myself so I though I'd share it.
I'm not sure if you guys have covered this. Did a quick search and couldn't find anything so hopefully this will help anybody who is trying to do the same thing I am.
Use the following ip address 127.0.0.1 . It is a loopback ip. Yay !
